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LOVE begins at home!

LOVE begins at home!

How many times have you caught yourself being nicer to strangers than your own family?
As I coach teens one of the main concerns teens have is how they are treated by their parents compared to others.
I often have to remind parents that their teens were once their toddlers. Just because they are now weird and know it all doesn’t mean they do not need our LOVE and attention.
Sometimes is the way we speak to our teens that makes the difference. Our tone can make a difficult situation better or more challenging.
Consider bringing a soft tone to your voice, consider having Lovely thoughts when you call your teen’s name, consider treating you teen as if they were a guest in your home, but most importantly remember what it was to be a teen.

Teens need LOVE too,

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
wwww.niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com

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Worrying is literally betting against Yourself!

Worrying is literally betting against Yourself!

Worrying is a total waste of emotion!
Regardless if you worry or not, the outcome will be whatever the outcome is going to be.
Your thoughts and your feelings have the power to re-direct your life.

If you are going to think, might as well think of thoughts in your favor. See yourself as GOD sees you, Whole, Healthy and Complete. When you begin a new endeavor, see yourself being successful with it and at it. LOVE Yourself enough to ONLY wish you well! When you have trials and tribulations, think grateful thoughts for the lessons that the situation will bestow upon you!!

Bet on yourself!
LOVE Yourself!
Consider thoughts a seed; plant seeds that will give you the fruit that you are longing for.

Happy Thoughts,

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoach.com

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Your Thoughts & Feelings Control Your Life!

Your Thoughts & Feelings Control Your Life!

I am in the process of reading “Ask and It Is Given” by Esther and Jerry Hicks for the second time. Chapter 19 was a life changing chapter for me and I have to share it!

The title of chapter 19 is:
Only You can know how you feel about you
“When you expect something, it is on the way.””When you believe something, it is on the way.” “When you fear something, it is on the way.”

According to this chapter, you can tell what is coming your way by the way you feel. The beauty of it is that if you realize that your feelings are not in alignment with your highest good, you can choose to feel differently, you can choose to think differently.

We have creative control. Thinking about what you are thinking about and realizing how you feel about it is the PERFECT way to choose differently. We can change what is manifesting in our lives by realizing what you are thinking and what type of feelings your thought generates.

If you are going through a life experience that brings forth discomfort and you no longer want this experience in your life, you have to change your thinking, change your feelings. If there is something that you want and it is not happening, you need to change your thinking, change your feelings.

Nothing in your life is so severe that you cannot change by changing your thoughts, changing your feelings about it, changing your belief system. The trick? Changing your thoughts, selecting different thoughts, is like exercising! It requires focus and practice!

If you persist on thinking the same thoughts, if you continue to believe as you are believing , if you continue feeling the same feelings, there will be no changes to your experience!

If you need assistance in redirecting your thoughts and feelings, contact me for a 20 minute FREE Life Coaching session!

Choose great thoughts,

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com

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“I Bestow Blessings Upon You!

As I study the teachings of Joel Osteen I am now convinced that I have the Power to Bless others as well as myself.

Reading the 11th day of Joel Osteen’s daily word, it inspired me to bestow a Blessing upon ALL of my readers:

I Declare Abundant Blessings Upon You and Yours. GOD Blessed you with Faith, Peace and Understanding! As you walk through the day
I Bless you with the Faith you need in order to encounter your day Victoriously.
I Bless you with Peace so that you can walk through your day knowing that ALL IS Well!
I Bless you with understanding to convince yourself that no matter what you see you will be the last one standing.

I Bless You with the realization that as long as you put GOD First, you have Faith and Understanding you can have the Desires of your Heart!

Blessings!
Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
wwww.niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com

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Parenting Teens – to be their friend or to be their parent

Parenting Teens -  to be their friend or to be their parent

On Monday, January 6, 2014 I was part of a radio interview in Tallahassee, Florida and Valdosta, Georgia.
I was featured as a Certified Professional Life Coach answering questions about teen parenting, and addressing the question of being a friend to your teens.

Please listen & enjoy!

Click here to listen…

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach

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The MOST important thought to remember for 2014

The MOST important thought to remember for 2014

Happy New Year!
Happy New You!

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach

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You

You

I am so extremely Grateful for this post! It was sent to me by Brandye Dague. The objective was to do something uplifting for me. As I read it, I became empowered and I decided to share it with ALL my clients and readers. Please pay it forward and share these words with someone!

Let me tell you something about YOU.

YOU can do anything you want.

YOU are in control.

YOU can achieve as much success as you want to.

YOU can and will pick yourself up when life knocks you down.

I BELIEVE IN YOU.

That’s all I wanted to say,

You see, Your success, Your Prosperity, Your Health, Your Peace, it all starts with YOU.

YOU can make a difference!

Blessing You,

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com