Ten Strategies to Raising Children

parenting

As per the Center for parenting, there are ten key strategies to raising children. Below you can read and share this blog with others.

  1.  Children thrive BEST in a home filled with respect and LOVE. The respect must be a 2 way street. Parents must respect their children and children must do the same.
  2. It is important that parents listen to their children. Listen with a quite non-judgmental ear as your children share their feelings and thoughts.
  3. The main emphasis should be what is good and positive about your children.
  4. Allow your children to learn and do tasks for themselves.
  5. Be cognizant of what your children can accomplish based on their age, maturity and skill level. Celebrate their accomplishments!
  6. Be “consistent!” Do what you say you are going to do.
  7. Do not become physical, emotionally or mentally abusive.
  8. Admit when you make mistakes. Be aware of your mistakes and teach your children that mistakes have lessons within them to be learned.
  9. Behave how you expect your children to behave.
  10. Laughter is the BEST medicine. Make sure your home is filled with a sense of humor.

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http://centerforparentingeducation.org/

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I Am

Knowing the TRUTH and practicing the TRUTH are 2 different practices! Knowing that you are created in the image and likeness of GOD, knowing that you are PERFECT just the way you are is one thing. Feeling and acting as if you are created in the image and likeness of GOD, therefore you are PERFECT as you are right now can be somewhat challenging. In order to bring the TRUTH of what you know into practice, you have to say YES to yourself. You have to be willing to be healed. Accepting yourself as GOD created you is the first step. This will place you on the road to experiencing the TRUTH that you already know within.

Asking GOD for healing of your “Self-Perception” is the second step. Take an inventory, and look for places in your conscious mind where you feel self-doubt, insecure or not enough; these are the thought patterns that need to be healed. Once you identify the thoughts, you can begin the third step by healing the thoughts that bring you to a false sense of self. These are the thoughts that make you forget the TRUTH about yourself.

The fourth and final step is to continuously remind yourself that you are a child of the Most High GOD, You are whole, You are healthy and You are complete. You have it within you to remain in this consciousness forever!

Need assistance practicing the TRUTH of who you really are?  Email me for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session: niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com

A Year of Miracles: Daily Devotions and Reflections –   Day 172; by: Marianne Williamson

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No one can be you but You!!

You are the BEST

When speaking spiritually, there is no competition! No one can be who you are a Destined to be. There is no competition to be you. No one else can be you as well as you can. You are made in the image and likeness of GOD and you are a unique expression of the Mind of GOD! Your place in the universe is secured. There is a major function which brings you to this earth plane and whatever it is, only YOU can do it! You are the ONLY person who can be the BEST at being you!

It is a humble experience to think that GOD place you here for such a time as this. This is not arrogance, this is TRUTH! Your main objective in life is to actualize your own potential.

Your assignment, should you choose to fulfill it, is to become who GOD created you to be and to become. Your objective is to be the person you are capable of being. This is your starting line in order to be open and receptive to bringing forth your kindness, your positivity, your vulnerability and your availability to do life to your highest potential.

Need assistance being the best you that you can be?  Email me for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session: niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com

A Year of Miracles: Daily Devotions and Reflections –   Day 340; by: Marianne Williamson

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I Declare

Dear Clients:

I declare that I will use my expertise, my actions and my words to bless you. I will assist you by writing a vision statement with your own words that will bring you favor in your life, world and affairs.

I will assist you so you can call out your Greatness. I will do this with you, by showing you your innate ability to be “Proud of YourSelf, to LOVE YourSelf and to nurture YourSelf.

I am committed to assist so in believing in YourSelf and your dreams. I will work with fidelity to assure You learn to navigate your True Self. Your TRUE Self  is amazing, talented and beautiful.  I am committed to assist you in believing in YourSelf and Your dreams.I will partner with You in agreement that you will do GREAT things in life. This is my declaration to You, My Dear client.

Dear Client you are coachable, you are eager to be BETTER and you have no problem compensating me for how GREAT your life will be! I ONLY work with individuals that want to change!

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I Declare – 31 Promises to speak over your life by Joel Osteen – day 14

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2015 in review

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True Forgiveness

 

Forgive

What is true forgiveness?

True forgiveness is choosing to remember in a selective manner. Choosing to remember the LOVE generated by the experience and letting go of the rest as the illusion it really was. Choosing to forgive does not make you more vulnerable to manipulation or exploitation. As a matter of fact, it makes you stronger.

To be closer to your true nature you need have the mind set of forgiveness.

Forgiving someone does not mean “they got away with it” or “they won!” It means you choose you, you choose freedom. You can walk into the light, and reclaim and enjoy your inner peace.

A Year of Miracles: Daily Devotions and Reflections –   Day 85;                       by: Marianne Williamson

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What is Faith?

Faith

Have you ever notice how many things happen without your assistance? Your heart beats, your five senses work, the planets revolve around the sun, and seeds become plants, trees and flowers. Babies begin as embryos and this all happens without your help. All these things happen because of a natural built in system. The beauty of this is that you are an integral part of this system. You can allow this natural force to direct your life or you can try to do your life ALL by yourself.

Faith is trusting on that natural system. Faith is believing that the Universe is on your side, and the Powers that be (GOD) wants the BEST for you! Faith is believing that GOD Is on Your side and GOD wants you to win. Faith is knowing that GOD, the Universe, the natural built in system wants the BEST for you. Faith is the mental awareness that everything that happens to you happens to you for your Highest Good and ALL will be well! Any attempt in your part to interfere will only result in delays and unwanted experiences. Your ability and willingness to let go and let GOD allows your life to unfold in your behalf!

Without Faith you will always try to control the outcome of your life. You will always try to control what is not your business to control and fix what is not in your power to fix. What you are trying to deal with is BETTER without your assistance. What you are trying to fix cannot be fixed by you! When you do not practice Faith you are wasting your time.  Why bother????????????????

A Year of Miracles: Daily Devotions and Reflections –   Day 95; by: Marianne Williamson

Need assistance developing your FAITH faculty?  Email me for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session: niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com

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