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My Source

No matter what is happening in my life GOD is my Source.
GOD Is my Source & GOD supplies me with ALL the money substance I need with Grace and Ease. I relax and know that GOD has it ALL figured out.
All my needs are met.
I am Grateful for what GOD Provides for Me.
I give thanks for everything.
Deuteronomy 8:18 requires me to remember that the LORD, My GOD, for is GOD who gives me the Power to get wealth, so that HE May confirm HIS Covenant that HE Swore to my ancestors, as he is doing today. I rely on this covenant for it affirms GOD Is my Source. ALL I have to do is to open my mind to receive my heritage of abundance given to me from the beginning of time.
I continuously affirm at all times, GOD Is MY Source, and ALL is well! 
Luke 15:31
You are ALWAYS with me, and ALL that is mine is Yours!
ALL things lead to My Success, My Happiness and My Wealthy no matter what!
ALL Is Well!
If you need assistance in realizing there is a Higher Power at work in your life, world and affairs, email me for a FREE 20 minute life coaching session.
Miracles 2
“What you choose is choosing you; choose wisely!”

Coach Arthur

 

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Radio Interview

Radio Interview

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Life Coaching Session

In this TV show, Coach Arthur introduces herself, shares the meaning of Life Coaching and conducts a true life coaching session

Enjoy!

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com

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Thoughts are things!

Thoughts are things!

I can’t say enough about the book “Ask and It Is Given” by Esther and Jerry Hicks!

I have read this book twice and the second time has literally opened a whole new world for and to me!

I have learned that if I am continuously mindful of how I am feeling within, I can literally stop myself from thinking thoughts that will serve no purpose in my life.
I learned that feeling my feelings is the easiest way to gauge what I am thinking. If I notice that I am not feeling at peace, calm in a state of well-being, all I have to do is think about what I am thinking about and change my thoughts immediately.

A very important question I have learned to ask myself is:
What is the purpose of having thoughts that will not enhance my life?
The answer to this question is one of the lessons this book has taught me.

An example:
I LOVE thinking of different scenarios where I tell someone how I feel about what I am experiencing or how I feel about what they did to me.
Well, I no longer do that, or should I say, I stop myself from doing that now!
I learned that this thinking process is a total waste of time!
After all, the Bible tells me that the words will come to me exactly when I need them.

Knowing that my feelings are a guiding tool/gauge to control my thoughts is the BEST lesson I have learned thus far in 2014.

If you are interested in knowing how to train your thoughts, by learning how your feelings can teach you the value of the thoughts you are having, email me for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session!

Feeling my feelings and guiding my thoughts,
Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com

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Honor YourSelf!

Honor YourSelf!

Once God places you on a HIGHER LEVEL:

You cannot go back to what you knew before!
You cannot settle for old stuff that is now beneath you!
You cannot regress into an old, low level comfort zone!
The old manner of getting ahead has changed!
The dynamic of your future has been set in high gear!
Your paradigm has shifted upward and onward!
What you use to “rely” on, you can’t rely on that anymore!
The lower rungs on your ladder to success no longer exist!
Don’t cry when old methods don’t work anymore. DRY THOSE TEARS!

Stop looking back!
Stop running backwards!
And, don’t look down!
Come out from under that low place!
Change your behavior, attitude and confidence to match your NEW HIGHER LEVEL!

You are not only on a different level
YOU ARE ON A HIGHER LEVEL!

These were my encouraging WORDS for today, especially after receiving an email with “not so cool” news. When I realized that what I was shooting for was beneath me, I dried my tears.

I’m ABOVE only and not BENEATH! I’m the HEAD AND NOT THE TAIL! – Deuteronomy 28:13

And, the ALTITUDE up here is just fine and dandy!

Gwen Brown
Opera Singer
Fisk University
C/O 87

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Be Kind to Yourself!

Be Kind to Yourself!

If you are anything like me whenever you do something wrong you spend lots and lots and lots of time being less than kind to yourself.
If someone else does something that can be considered less than perfect, I seem to be able to say, “no worries!”

However, when I do it, I come out with the entire army for destruction!

Well, that was me before, I am in the process of being kinder and gentler to myself!
Why not?
After all, if GOD made me in HIS Image and Likeness who am I not be Proud, Grateful, and Humble for who GOD created me to be! There is ONLY one me, and I am the ONLY one that can do me effectively!

I challenge everyone reading this post!
Be nicer to yourself, LOVE yourself, but most importantly enjoy being with yourself.
You are the ONLY you you got!

Being kind to Myself,

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com

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Ways to avoid loosing it!

Ways to avoid loosing it!

When you know BETTER you do BETTER!
The MOST important job we have as parents does not come with directions. It is no secret that parenting is by far one of the most difficult jobs a parent will encounter. Luckily, nowadays there are may venus and outlets one can utilize to assist with child-rearing!
One of the strategies can be hiring a therapist, looking on line for helpful parenting websites, reading books about parenting or hiring someone like myself, a life coach for parents and teens.
To this end, I am always reading and I found a very interesting article in onetoughjob.org which shared some very interesting strategies for parents who experienced their children pushing their buttons. These are strategies I have recommended to my own clients and they are are worth sharing.

The same child who have brought you joy, love and proud moments can also make you feel as if you are going to loose it, when you experience these moments, there are strategies which will assist in making the situation better or assist in moving forward.
Some strategies to use when you are loosing it:

Forgive Yourself:
If in fact you have lost your temper with your child, please, forgive yourself! That is the first step to fix the problem. Once you have forgiven yourself, then, you can have a conversation with your child and apologize. Verbalize your feelings and admit that you did not handle the situation properly. Believe it or not, this will be a life lesson for your child.

You are not alone:
You are not the first parent who have lost your temper or have worked very hard not to loose your temper. Unfortunately we as a society do not speak about our weakness, but we all have them. You are not the first parent whose child has done something wrong or embarrassing. Do not judge yourself so harshly, Remember, your child is here to go through his/her own journey. Be gently with yourself!

View their actions as a way to communicate:
At times our children do not know how to express their emotions. At times, their actions appear to be bizarre to us, but if you open the lines of communication you will see there is a reason for the behavior. You just need to ask without judgment! Try your BEST to always find out where your child is coming from. Ask a lot of why questions, and be patient enough to wait for the answer.

Seek Support:
There are many parenting groups that will support you through tough times, hiring a Life Coach for parents like myself will also benefit your journey into better parenting. Having someone who can relieve you of your parenting duties while you take a deep breath or go out is also an excellent idea.

Understand your response:
Sometimes it is difficult to stop and count before reacting. Before spanking, yelling, calling your child names, Stop! Stop and think of what is going to happen next. Do a quick self assessment and take a deep breath. Once that angry moment has passed, you will be able to think and speak more clearly. Remember, your intention is NOT to hurt your child’s feelings!

Be on the same page with your Co-Parent:
A child must feel as routines are a way of life. Both parents must demonstrate a united front when it comes to parenting. Your child will see if there are any fragile areas in your parenting and will divide and conquer.

Be consistent:
This is not one of the strategies in the article, but I believe that being consistent will allow you to be a better parent. If you say it, then, you must do it! It is important that your child knows, understands, but most importantly believe that if you say it, you mean it!

If you need someone who will assist you with your parenting skills or your teens’ ability to handle life effectively, email me for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session, niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com

Happy Parenting,

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com