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Teenage Survival 101

Posted on June 24, 2015 | Leave a comment

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Being a Mother and an Educator has taught me a very valuable lesson. Well, I have learned many lessons, but I am just going to share one today. In order to develop a strong relationship with your teen you MUST be a parent of your word.

From the moment my girls were little I only told them our plans when I was 100% sure we were going to do it.  If I said they were on punishment, the punishment was carried out. I always kept my word, one situation at a time.  This allowed them to become teens that knew that when MOM said it, she meant it. It is important that parents keep their word as we must teach by example. This is what is going to create TRUST. Trust, a big word needed in order to foster a positive relationship between parent and teen.

Need assistance creating TRUST between your teen and you?  Email me for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session: niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
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You are where You need to Be!

Posted on February 21, 2015 | Leave a comment

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You are exactly where you need to be right now. Everything that has happened to you up to this point has brought you to right now and has made you who you are today.

It is now your time to become the GREAT Person you were created/designed to be. Keep in mind that without ALL the experiences you have enjoyed you would not be able to achieve your GREATNESS.

The challenges you experienced were there as oils to the GREAT machine you are to become. It matter not to Our GOD how low you have gone or high you have reached. There are no limits to GOD! It is not too late, this is the right time, this is the right moment!
You are GREATNESS waiting for Yourself to bring Your Own Greatness into expression.
You are the GREATNESS you Seek!

If you want to learn how to achieve the Greatness you were meant to achieve, I am the Life Coach for you!  Email me for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session: niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com

A Year of Miracles: Daily Devotions and Reflections –  Day 10; by: Marianne Williamson

Coach Arthur
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I Forgive!

Posted on January 8, 2015 | Leave a comment

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I do my Spiritual work on a daily basis! I wake up really early in the morning and I read my Spiritual books, I do my prayers, and I meditate while I shower. As I get dress, I am listening to either Joel Osteen, Troy Gramling, Joyce Mayer, or Bishop TD Jakes. By the time I am dressed and ready to go out the door, I am ready for the world! I am ready to Bless everyone and Greet the CHRIST in them, but then, others’ imperfection, their wounded spirits, their beliefs different than my on or my own imperfection get in my way. This is the time that I MUST use FORGIVENESS!

Forgiveness means seeing in FAITH a LOVE that is GREATER than the actual experiences, or the past experiences. I MUST be willing to see beyond someone’s dark personality to their Soul where their GOD Self resides. To FORGIVE does not mean that I do not acknowledge that other people’s behavior has caused me or someone else discomfort, I simply choose not to focus on the action. Focusing on the action will make it real to me and that makes it real for me.

The ONLY way to protect myself from being vulnerable to other’s behavior is to identify with the person’s Higher Power – Their GOD Within. I can choose to look beyond other’s behavior and concentrate on their GOD Self. By using this strategy I FREE the individual from my condemnation, but I also FREE myself as well. This is the meaning of Forgiveness!

If you want to learn how to forgive Yourself and others, I am the Life Coach for you!  Email me for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session: niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com

A Year of Miracles: Daily Devotions and Reflections – Day 364; by: Marianne Williamson

Forgiveness is my daily business,

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com
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I Am that I Am

Posted on December 31, 2014 | Leave a comment

I Am that I Am

I was Created by GOD!

I Am a Child of GOD!

GOD breath his Spirit into me, ALL of GOD Creativity was designed for me as me. Everything GOD has created was created perfectly and I am one of GOD’s creations.

There is no need for me to seek perfection, there is no need for me to seek approval as GOD created me Perfect, Whole & Complete. The Perfect me appears when I show unconditional LOVE to people and circumstances. I now allow GOD to take over and erase any fear or doubt that will keep me from my Highest Good in order for me to express the perfect me in order for the world to see the LIGHT GOD placed in me!

If you want to realize who your TRUE Self really is, I am the Life Coach for you!  Email me for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session: niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com inbox me for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session!

A Year of Miracles: Daily Devotions and Reflections – Day 243;  Marianne Williamson

Coach Arthur
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Thoughts are things!

Thoughts are things!

I can’t say enough about the book “Ask and It Is Given” by Esther and Jerry Hicks!

I have read this book twice and the second time has literally opened a whole new world for and to me!

I have learned that if I am continuously mindful of how I am feeling within, I can literally stop myself from thinking thoughts that will serve no purpose in my life.
I learned that feeling my feelings is the easiest way to gauge what I am thinking. If I notice that I am not feeling at peace, calm in a state of well-being, all I have to do is think about what I am thinking about and change my thoughts immediately.

A very important question I have learned to ask myself is:
What is the purpose of having thoughts that will not enhance my life?
The answer to this question is one of the lessons this book has taught me.

An example:
I LOVE thinking of different scenarios where I tell someone how I feel about what I am experiencing or how I feel about what they did to me.
Well, I no longer do that, or should I say, I stop myself from doing that now!
I learned that this thinking process is a total waste of time!
After all, the Bible tells me that the words will come to me exactly when I need them.

Knowing that my feelings are a guiding tool/gauge to control my thoughts is the BEST lesson I have learned thus far in 2014.

If you are interested in knowing how to train your thoughts, by learning how your feelings can teach you the value of the thoughts you are having, email me for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session!

Feeling my feelings and guiding my thoughts,
Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com

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Posted on May 22, 2014 in Art of allowing, Ask & It is Given, assistance, Children, Coaching, consultation, empowering, Esther and Jerry Hicks, help, Law of Attraction, motivation, support, Uncategorized

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LOVE YourSelf

When you read the words in the sand, you consider it elementary. Of course You LOVE Yourself! Really? Do you really LOVE Yourself?

Look at your life, look at the choices you have made, if you were someone else, would you say you LOVE Yourself? Below are a series of questions, answer them HONESTLY, and you will get a general idea on how you feel about yourself:

When is the last time you went to the doctor for a check up?
When is the last time you did something nice for yourself?
When is the last time you put your feelings, needs, desires before someone else’s?
When was the last time you said YES to you?
When is the last time you exercised?
Do you smoke?
Do you drink excessively?
Are you doing something to your body that you know deep inside is not healthy?
Are you following your doctor’s orders?
Listen to your self-talk, what do you think about what you are saying to yourself.
How do you feel when someone give you a complement?
How do you react when someone want to do something nice to you?
Do you ever call yourself a name?
When is the last time you took a nap?

As we enter 2014, let us all choose to LOVE Ourselves!
Believe it or not, LOVING OurSelves will allow Us to LOVE others more!

On the way to Truly LOVING Myself,

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Live Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com

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Posted on December 17, 2013 in assistance, Coaching, empowering, help, inspiration, motivation, support, Truth, Uncategorized, wisdom

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All Is Well!

All Is Well!

It is not a secret that we all have challenges that we have to face. At times we feel as if we are the ONLY ones going through a challenging experience. Some of us feel that is BEST to keep challenges inside as talking about it might make matters worse or perhaps talking about it will show lack of Faith. All that is fine, but I guarantee you that if you were to hear other peoples’s challenges you will realize that it can always be worse!

Today’s challenges will pass. It is evident. Look at your life, think back to 5 or 10 years ago. Remember that challenge? More than likely you do not. Why? It came to pass and more than likely it happened for your Highest.

Today’s challenges are here to give you bragging rights. You will surpass your challenge, you will come on top. You will end up BETTER than you were before. If you are Wise, amongst your bragging rights you will acknowledge that of you, you can do nothing and you will give GOD All the credit and the Glory.

You know that nothing is here to stay and the ONLY constant we have is change. Be Grateful as you go through your challenges and remember that after your challenge you will have bragging rights.

To your Strength,
Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
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Posted on November 20, 2013 in assistance, Coaching, consultation, empowering, God, help, inspiration, Life, Life Coach, Life Coaching, motivation, Spiritual, support, Truth, Uncategorized, wisdom

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One of Life’s Greatest Success Secrets:

One of Life's Greatest Success Secrets:

You have the Power to plan your way to success! When you do plan your way to success, you organize ALL The Powers of Heaven and Earth to help make your plan a reality!

The Prosperity Secrets of the Ages
By Catherine Ponder
Chapter 12
Plan Your way to success
Page 241

Happy Planning,
Coach Arthur

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Posted on March 17, 2013 in Coaching, empowering, God, inspiration, Life, Life Coaching, motivation, Spiritual, support, Truth, Uncategorized, wisdom

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I Declare

Posted on February 25, 2013 | Leave a comment

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As a Parent & Teen Life Coach, I Declare I am a people builder.

I will look for opportunities to

encourage others to bring out the

BEST in them and to help them

accomplish their dreams. I will

speak words of Faith and Victory, affirming

them, approving them, letting them

know they are valued. I will call

out their seeds of greatness, helping

them to rise higher and become all

that GOD created them to be.

This is My Declaration

Coach Arthur – CPC

I Declare 31 promises to Speak Over Your Life  By Joel Osteen  – Day 23

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Common Sense is not Common

Common Sense is not Common

Common Sense is not Common!

Am sitting here in Nassau, Bahamas being extremely happy as I celebrate my B*Day weekend and enjoy the sound of the ocean waves from my hotel room (this was a BIG Dream for me). Here is the thing,
is 4:19 a.m. and I am up! Why? One thing, I am excited about going outside to walk in the beach when morning time comes (yes, at 48 I am still a kid at heart), and am also suffering from a very nasty allergy attack. Being grateful and surfing channels I came across The Steve Harvey Show. He shared three rules that I just must share. Needless to say, me being me, I had to put my own spin to Steve Harvey’s three common sense rules.

DREAM BIG
We are ALWAYS thinking, always! Let us put our thinking time for good use. Think BIG!
What do you want?
Just think it!
Just feel it!
Go into your mind file cabinet and remember everything that you ever wanted to do. Go way back, select the BIGGEST Dream that has ever crossed your mind and dust it off. If you believe in GOD (I highly recommend you do) pray for the wisdom to make your BIG Dream come into fruition. If your dream is in the forefront of your mind, cultivate it. Give yourself permission to succeed. Give your BIG Dream permission to be manifested in your life, world, and affairs. See it! Smile as you think about it! See yourself in your BIG Dream!

INCH BY INCH ANYTHING IS A ZINCH
Once you figure out what your dream is, do something about it. Start small, just one action a day. Think about your BIG dream. Do something about your dream on a daily basis. Think about the feeling you will have when you achieve your dream.
What will it feel like?
What will you hear?
What would you feel?
Little by little formulate your BIG Dream in your head, feeling the feeling of manifesting your dream and be grateful for your BIG Dream coming into fruition.

LIFE IS 10% WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU AND 90% WHAT YOU DO ABOUT IT!
Even the BEST thinking person will have challenges in life. Everyone has challenges, is not the challenge, is the way we handle it. When you are in the process of seeing your BIG Dream in your mind’s eye and you begin doing something about it.
How are you going to react when the first obstacle appears?
What will you do when the 100’s obstacle appear?
example: You are in the grocery store and the line is really short, you are next and in a hurry.
What are your going to do?
What will you choose?
You can become exasperated, start complaining and become miserable in your mind, where ONLY you live OR you can use this time to think gratefully about your BIG Dream! You can use this time to pray, think happy thoughts, exercise your affirmations, review your vision statement mentally or send the cashier and customer thoughts of light and harmony.
What will you choose????

Coach Arthur
Life Coach

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Posted on February 16, 2013 in assistance, Children, Coaching, consultation, empowering, Father, God, help, inspiration, Life, Life Coaching, mother, motherhood, motivation, Parenting, support, Truth, Uncategorized, wisdom

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