When You choose to walk your world in Peace, you realize that ONLY Peaceful situations come your way!
If there is a disruption in your day, as you choose Peace, the situation will resolve itself, go away, or you will have every tool necessary to demonstrate and keep your Peace!
Peace is the key to our well-being!
Peace begins with Me,
Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com
Don Miguel Ruiz is one of my favorite authors. I have made the intention to become an expert in sharing his book “The Four Agreements” with as many parents, teens and individuals in my world via workshops and presentations.
When I saw this picture I was tickled pink, and decided to use this opportunity to share his second agreement. “Don’t take anything personal!”
When someone is interacting with you, there are doing it from their perspective, from their point of view, from their experiences. When they are giving you advice, they are speaking from the way they see life, from the agreements they have made to themselves.
Therefore, you MUST always remember that the words that are coming out of someone’s mouth are about them and how they see life and not about you!
Don’t take things personally because you are here to fulfilled your Life’s Purpose and ONLY you can do that. Taking things personally will delay your progress!
The actions of others are just that, the people around you are going to act according to their belief system. No, they are not trying to hurt you, they are trying to save themselves.
You are responsible for you. It is no one’s responsibility if you take things said to you positively or negatively, the way you perceive what you hear is TOTALLY up to you!
The other side of that coin? You are not responsible for how others perceive your words, actions or reactions.
I live my life, you live your life and we are all living our lives according to our experiences, according to how we perceive our world, and most importantly, we live our lives according to our perceptions, good, bad or indifferent; perception is our reality!
Bottom line: Everything that others tell you is the way they see you. When you learn that, you FREE yourself from the opinions of others!
Our attitude should be: “What you think about me, is none of my business!”
Being free from the opinions of others,
Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com
Whenever you are growing through challenges see them as Opportunities!
An opportunity to GROW!
An opportunity to say “Thank You GOD for the Strength I need to conquer this challenge!”
An opportunity to know that you are not alone, and that this too shall pass!
An opportunity to buckle down and choose to learn from the lesson!
An opportunity to ask for help!
An opportunity to share your challenge with someone who needs encouragement through their own storm.
An opportunity to know that you know you will be BETTER for this experience.
An opportunity to TRUST the process!
An opportunity to see your challenge as a lesson!
An opportunity to have FAITH!
Here is to opportunities,
Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com
It is not a secret that we all have challenges that we have to face. At times we feel as if we are the ONLY ones going through a challenging experience. Some of us feel that is BEST to keep challenges inside as talking about it might make matters worse or perhaps talking about it will show lack of Faith. All that is fine, but I guarantee you that if you were to hear other peoples’s challenges you will realize that it can always be worse!
Today’s challenges will pass. It is evident. Look at your life, think back to 5 or 10 years ago. Remember that challenge? More than likely you do not. Why? It came to pass and more than likely it happened for your Highest.
Today’s challenges are here to give you bragging rights. You will surpass your challenge, you will come on top. You will end up BETTER than you were before. If you are Wise, amongst your bragging rights you will acknowledge that of you, you can do nothing and you will give GOD All the credit and the Glory.
You know that nothing is here to stay and the ONLY constant we have is change. Be Grateful as you go through your challenges and remember that after your challenge you will have bragging rights.
To your Strength,
Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
wwww.niecatlifecoaching.com
I make Me Happy, he just makes Me Happier!
However, I make Myself Happy First!
Catiana Maria Shiver (The Cat in NieCat)
Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com
I believe that what we call ourselves has a direct correlation on what we call our children!”
As an educator for the last 25 years I have come across many children who had very low self-esteem. Once I met their parents I realized that there was a direct correlation on how parents view themselves and how they view their children.
Most parents want more for their children than what they have experienced in their lives. There is however, a vital ingredient that some parents miss. Our children listen to us very carefully; when our children are toddlers they learn to speak by the words we use. What we attach to “I Am” becomes what our children will learn. When we say, I Am sick, I Am broke, I Am tired, those are the beginning of our children’s road map to who they are.
We need to choose differently! We need to add positive words to our “I Am.” We are doing this for our children and for ourselves. I am Victorious, I am Faithful, I am Peaceful, I Am Honest, I Am GOD in action, I am wise with my money, I am happy, I am LOVED, I am appreciated, I am right where I need to be. When our children hear those types of words attached to our I Am, they have no choice than to imitate these words.
When we speak to our children, we MUST never say bad words. Yes, I know life gets in the way and life becomes a challenge, but life is a one day at a time journey, one moment at a time. There is no need to curse at our children. That goes against the reason why they are here. Our children are here so that we can assists them in becoming the BEST they can be. That is our duty.
Do not call your children names! Treat your children as the biblical characters treated their children. We are to Bless our children! We are to Bestowed our GREAT words and ideas upon our children.
Having children is one of the Biggest Blessings GOD has Bestowed upon us. We MUST make sure we raise our children with respect, LOVE and a BIG dose of Self-Esteem.
Parenting is a Blessing,
Coach Arthur
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com
Consider this a Human Experiment, for the next SEVEN days think about what you are thinking about. Be gentle with yourself. No Judgment please!
This will be like exercising, you will be exhausted, you will feel like you want to quit, please don’t! Keep at it!
By the third day, begin to select your thoughts and choose to think ONLY thoughts that make you feel good, thoughts that bring a good feeling. Think of things you want, think of your Desires, and watch your feelings take over.
According to Jerry and Esther Hicks this is the formula to manifest. Another way of looking at it is thinking FAITH filled words.
Once you have done it for seven days, try extending the excersize to 10 days, 15 days, 21 days. Remembering that according to the research it takes 21 days to create a habit. Wouldn’t it be GREAT if you can develop this Habit?
If you want to commit to training your thinking, email me for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session, niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com
Thinking my way to my Heart’s Desires,
Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com
I am in the process of reading “Ask and It Is Given” by Esther and Jerry Hicks for a second time. The first time I read it, I thought it was a GREAT book, now that I am reading it for the second time, I know for sure this book is a guide for manifestation, a guide for life.
The first two lessons this book taught me is that worrying is a waste of time and how to stop worrying once the feeling comes upon me. Of course if you follow my blog you know that I knew this already, but it is one thing to know it intellectually and another story entirely different to actually practice it. Practice makes perfect!!!!
I have learned and am teaching my clients that worrying is truly a waste of time because most of the issues we worry about never come to pass and if they do, they are never as horrible as our powerful thoughts make them out to be. Worrying teaches us how powerful we really are. Think of the scenarios you have thought about when you worry! Think of the feeling worrying generates! If you are not feeling good, then, you have to replace/change the thought!
Instead of worrying, we can think of thoughts that make us happy because according to Esther and Jerry Hicks, when we are thinking thoughts that make us happy and we feel the feeling of happiness we become closer to Our Source, Our GOD! Getting our thoughts and feelings together bring us closer to manifesting our Heart’s Desire! This thought has been my motivating force since August, 2013 and I am doing very well. It is not an easy task, but like everything else, it is achievable!
If you want to learn how to align your thoughts and your feelings in order to be closer to Your Source, manifest your Heart’s Desire (consider this Zumba or Hip Hop Abs for the mind), and if you want to stop worrying, reach out to me (niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com) and I can teach you how to do it!
The first 20 minutes are FREE!!!!!!!!
Thinking & Feeling my way to my Heart’s Desires,
Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com
The Soul of Man is created in the image and likeness of GOD and has been given Dominion over every phase of life. The Soul of Man has the Power to choose the circumstances into which it will be born in order to grow, unfold, and develop certain talents and abilities.
The Prosperity Secrets of the Ages
By Catherine Ponder
Humanity is the Power of GOD in action.
GOD has given humankind the Power to
form and shape our lives. The gifts given to
form and shape our lives. The gifts given to
Humanity are the conscious Power of thought
and of the spoken word. Because we have been
given such Great Power, we must use it lovingly
and wisely.
The Power to think makes us free agents.
We shape our lives in the image-likeness of our
Thinking. Our thoughts and feelings express as experiences because thoughts are things.
We can speak the word and align ourselves
with our Christ-nature. Our words are filled
with Power to accomplish the intent with
Which they are spoken.
We can use our words to build our lives.
We must consciously speak only things we
Want to see expressed.
If you want to learn to use your words
to create your ideal life, contact me for your
FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session, my
email address is niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com
Happy Thinking,
Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com
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