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Happiness starts within!

Happiness starts within!

I make Me Happy, he just makes Me Happier!
However, I make Myself Happy First!
Catiana Maria Shiver (The Cat in NieCat)

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com

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Posted on October 24, 2013 in Coaching, empowering, happy, inspiration, Life, Life Coach, Life Coaching, smile, Teenagers, Truth, Uncategorized, wisdom

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You Manifest The Thoughts & The Feelings You concentrate on the MOST!

You Manifest The Thoughts & The Feelings You concentrate on the MOST!

The more you Think about thought (A), the more you feel good about Thinking about Thought (A). The faster you will manifest thought (A).

Thoughts and the feelings good thoughts generate in your mind are really the 2 things you really, really need (let’s not forget FAITH) in order to manifest!

Don’t bother thinking about things you don’t want in your life. You are not responsible for the thoughts that come into your mind. However, you are 100% responsible for the thoughts you choose to entertain.

Thinking & Feeling my way to my Best,

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach

http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com

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Posted on October 20, 2013 in assistance, Coaching, consultation, help, inspiration, Life, Life Coach, Life Coaching, Spiritual, Uncategorized, wisdom

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Your “I Am” becomes Your Children’s “I Am”

I believe that what we call ourselves has a direct correlation on what we call our children!”

As an educator for the last 25 years I have come across many children who had very low self-esteem. Once I met their parents I realized that there was a direct correlation on how parents view themselves and how they view their children.

Most parents want more for their children than what they have experienced in their lives. There is however, a vital ingredient that some parents miss. Our children listen to us very carefully; when our children are toddlers they learn to speak by the words we use. What we attach to “I Am” becomes what our children will learn. When we say, I Am sick, I Am broke, I Am tired, those are the beginning of our children’s road map to who they are.

We need to choose differently! We need to add positive words to our “I Am.” We are doing this for our children and for ourselves. I am Victorious, I am Faithful, I am Peaceful, I Am Honest, I Am GOD in action, I am wise with my money, I am happy, I am LOVED, I am appreciated, I am right where I need to be. When our children hear those types of words attached to our I Am, they have no choice than to imitate these words.

When we speak to our children, we MUST never say bad words. Yes, I know life gets in the way and life becomes a challenge, but life is a one day at a time journey, one moment at a time. There is no need to curse at our children. That goes against the reason why they are here. Our children are here so that we can assists them in becoming the BEST they can be. That is our duty.

Do not call your children names! Treat your children as the biblical characters treated their children. We are to Bless our children! We are to Bestowed our GREAT words and ideas upon our children.

Having children is one of the Biggest Blessings GOD has Bestowed upon us. We MUST make sure we raise our children with respect, LOVE and a BIG dose of Self-Esteem.

Parenting is a Blessing,
Coach Arthur
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com

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Posted on October 14, 2013 in Children, Coaching, empowering, Father, mother, motherhood, support, Teenagers, Truth, Uncategorized, wisdom

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For the next SEVEN days!

For the next SEVEN days!

Consider this a Human Experiment, for the next SEVEN days think about what you are thinking about. Be gentle with yourself. No Judgment please!

This will be like exercising, you will be exhausted, you will feel like you want to quit, please don’t! Keep at it!

By the third day, begin to select your thoughts and choose to think ONLY thoughts that make you feel good, thoughts that bring a good feeling. Think of things you want, think of your Desires, and watch your feelings take over.

According to Jerry and Esther Hicks this is the formula to manifest. Another way of looking at it is thinking FAITH filled words.

Once you have done it for seven days, try extending the excersize to 10 days, 15 days, 21 days. Remembering that according to the research it takes 21 days to create a habit. Wouldn’t it be GREAT if you can develop this Habit?

If you want to commit to training your thinking, email me for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session, niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com

Thinking my way to my Heart’s Desires,
Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com

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Posted on October 10, 2013 in assistance, Coaching, empowering, inspiration, Life Coach, Life Coaching, motivation, support, Truth, Uncategorized, wisdom

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Thoughts + Feelings = Manifestation

Thoughts + Feelings = Manifestation

I am in the process of reading “Ask and It Is Given” by Esther and Jerry Hicks for a second time. The first time I read it, I thought it was a GREAT book, now that I am reading it for the second time, I know for sure this book is a guide for manifestation, a guide for life.

The first two lessons this book taught me is that worrying is a waste of time and how to stop worrying once the feeling comes upon me. Of course if you follow my blog you know that I knew this already, but it is one thing to know it intellectually and another story entirely different to actually practice it. Practice makes perfect!!!!

I have learned and am teaching my clients that worrying is truly a waste of time because most of the issues we worry about never come to pass and if they do, they are never as horrible as our powerful thoughts make them out to be. Worrying teaches us how powerful we really are. Think of the scenarios you have thought about when you worry! Think of the feeling worrying generates! If you are not feeling good, then, you have to replace/change the thought!

Instead of worrying, we can think of thoughts that make us happy because according to Esther and Jerry Hicks, when we are thinking thoughts that make us happy and we feel the feeling of happiness we become closer to Our Source, Our GOD! Getting our thoughts and feelings together bring us closer to manifesting our Heart’s Desire! This thought has been my motivating force since August, 2013 and I am doing very well. It is not an easy task, but like everything else, it is achievable!

If you want to learn how to align your thoughts and your feelings in order to be closer to Your Source, manifest your Heart’s Desire (consider this Zumba or Hip Hop Abs for the mind), and if you want to stop worrying, reach out to me (niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com) and I can teach you how to do it!
The first 20 minutes are FREE!!!!!!!!

Thinking & Feeling my way to my Heart’s Desires,
Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com

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Posted on September 25, 2013 in Coaching, empowering, help, Life, Life Coach, Life Coaching, motivation, support, Truth, Uncategorized, wisdom

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What I want for My Clients!

What I want for My Clients!

I DECLARE I will use my expertise, actions and words to Cheer and Bless My Clients. I will listen intently as My Clients answer all the questions I ask so that I can write a vision statement for Them that will bring them Favor in Their Life, World & Affairs.

I will help them call out their Greatness by showing them their innate ability to be “Proud of Themselves, to LOVE Themselves, to BELIEVE in Themselves and Their Dreams. I will motivate Them and assist Them in navigating Their True Self by reminding Them how Amazing, Talented, and Beautiful They are. I will partner with My Clients in agreement that They will do GREAT things in Life.

This is My Declaration to ALL of My Clients!

Adopted from Joel Osteen “I Declare 31 Promises to Speak over Your Life” Day 14

If you want me to partner with you so that you can manifest a BETTER Life, contact me for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching Session!

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com

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Posted on September 19, 2013 in assistance, Coaching, consultation, empowering, help, Uncategorized

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I Am a Helicopter Mom & Proud of it!

I Am a Helicopter Mom & Proud of it!

I have been a Helicopter Mom for the last 23 years.
What is a Helicopter Mom You ask?
A Helicopter Mom is a Mom who doesn’t leave their Child’s Life to chance. A Mom who knows what is going on with Her Child and intervenes when ever necessary for the betterment of Her Child.

Last year I was told that as my Baby Girl turned 18 that I had to let go! I did! What do I think of that move? Mistake!!!!!!!!
I am in total disagreement with stopping the Helicopter Mom Life style. I disagree 100% with the fact that the colleges do not allow parents to know anything about Their Child’s college information but MUST write the checks.

Here is my rationale, if We continue being a Helicopter Parent until Our Children graduate college the possibility of them returning home decreases tremendously.

That’s my take on it. What do you think?

Sincerely,
Helicopter Mom
Coach Arthur
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com

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Posted on August 27, 2013 in assistance, Children, Coaching, Life, motherhood, support, Uncategorized

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Think your way through Life

Think your way through Life

I never understood why as a student of Metaphysics I was always told that if I wanted to know what I was thinking all I had to do is look at what was happening in my life! Every time Rev Mary (Universal Truth Center) said that I use to suck my teeth internally. How did I create such a mess?

Well, reading the book “Ask and it is Given Learning to Manifest Your Destiny” by Esther and Jerry Hicks have really sent me on my way. You can actually think your way to the life you want. Really, you can!

If you don’t like what is happening in your world, change it, if you can’t change it, then, change your attitude about it. Complaining should not be a part of your life anymore. Don’t complain, don’t even explain. Change your mind, change your thoughts and your life will change.

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Posted on August 6, 2013 in assistance, Coaching, consultation, empowering, motivation, support, Uncategorized, wisdom

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Don’t let it be too late!

Don't let it be too late!

We sometimes seem to put our LOVE Ones last on our Priority list, specially Our Children! We do not me to do so, it just happens and time just passes!”

It seems like it was just yesterday that I gave birth in 1994 and just a couple of years ago that it was 1990. Nie will be 23 years old next month and Cat will be 19 years old in December.
Where did the time go?

It is GREAT to hear them reminisce about their experiences growing up. Sometimes I am shocked of their perception of their childhood. What I enjoy most is their accounts of times that we had fun, or that made them laugh!

Here is what I learned from my experience of raising NieCat. Children will tell their growing up story through their eyes. In order to make sure your children’s growing up story is one that you enjoy hearing:
1. Put them first!
2. keep your word!
3. Make a sacrifice, give them your time and your talents because at the end of the day, your children are your legacy.

If you need assistance on how to make time for your children, contact me for a FREE 20 minute Parent Life Coaching session, niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com.

Happy Parenting,

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com

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Posted on July 25, 2013 in assistance, Children, Coaching, consultation, empowering, help, Life, motherhood, Uncategorized, wisdom

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Forgiveness Is Our Daily Business

Posted on July 10, 2013 | 2 comments

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The key to forgiveness is to forgive from the heart — not from the mind. Sheri Rosenthal

Forgiveness … is the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past. Joan Borysenko

Forgiveness is not always easy. At times, it feels more painful than the wound we suffered, to forgive the one that inflicted it. And yet, there is no peace without forgiveness.   Marianne Williamson

People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered; ….Forgive them anyway.
Kent Keith (often attributed to Mother Teresa)

Forgiving is not a gift to someone else – Forgiving is your gift to yourself – a great gift – the gift of happiness. Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Forgive those who have injured you – not because they deserve your forgiveness, but because you can never be happy until you release your anger and grant forgiveness

May the world be kind to you,
and may your own thoughts be gentle upon yourself.
Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Jonathan Lockwood Huie
jlh @ sail7 .com

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