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Bitter or BETTER, You Choose!

Posted on October 14, 2014 | 1 comment

BitterorBETTER

There are many choices we must make on a daily basis. We can choose to be bitter or we can choose to be BETTER.

Today I submit to you that we should ALL choose BETTER. When we choose bitter, we bring forth more bitterness into our lives, world and affairs.

As I ponder upon what I have gone through I choose to forgive myself and I choose to forgive others, I release past hurts and I choose to be good to me. I release myself from past experiences that I perceived as hurtful.

Choosing to stay bitter, choosing to stay hurt may allow me to feel the support of others, the pitty of others for awhile, however, this trend will not put me in the pass to my Highest Good! I will not be able to begin again in this stage.

In order for me to have miracles in my life, in order for GOD to Truly direct my steps, I have to choose BETTER, I have to choose me and I can’t choose me if I choose bitter.

I have a choice, I can choose to have a grievance or I can choose to be and to have a miracle, bottom line, I can’t choose both.

I choose BETTER!

If you want to learn how to make WISE choices in your world and you need assistance and encouragement, I am the Life Coach for you! Email me for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session: niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com

A Year of Miracles: Daily Devotions and Reflections – Day 222  MarianneWilliamson

Making Wise Choices,

Coach Arthur
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If you want change, You MUST change

If you want change, You MUST change

In my Life Coaching practice I have experienced many parents coming to me asking to help with their teenagers and their attitudes. The first question I ask? How do you react when the attitude begins? The answers to this question are very informative!

As Spiritual Beings having a Human Experience, we tend to forget (the reason why we suffer) that we have Power & Dominion over our actions and reactions. I often have to write my clients vision statements reminding them of this very important point.
What does that mean?
That we have control on how we react to situations that are less than ideal with an attitude that can defuse the situation and make things BETTER.

When our teenagers give us attitude (not disrespect), the BEST way to handle it is pointing out the behavior to them, but most importantly, we MUST make sure that our attitude does not compare to theirs. The ONLY way we can teach our teenage children how to BEST handle their emotions, actions and reactions is by keeping our cool and having a handle on our words and deeds when we interact with them. We MUST become the change we want to see in our households!

Happy parenting,
Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com

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Posted on December 23, 2013 in assistance, Children, Coaching, empowering, Father, help, mother, motherhood, support, Uncategorized

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Think your way through Life

Think your way through Life

I never understood why as a student of Metaphysics I was always told that if I wanted to know what I was thinking all I had to do is look at what was happening in my life! Every time Rev Mary (Universal Truth Center) said that I use to suck my teeth internally. How did I create such a mess?

Well, reading the book “Ask and it is Given Learning to Manifest Your Destiny” by Esther and Jerry Hicks have really sent me on my way. You can actually think your way to the life you want. Really, you can!

If you don’t like what is happening in your world, change it, if you can’t change it, then, change your attitude about it. Complaining should not be a part of your life anymore. Don’t complain, don’t even explain. Change your mind, change your thoughts and your life will change.

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Posted on August 6, 2013 in assistance, Coaching, consultation, empowering, motivation, support, Uncategorized, wisdom

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Gratefulness!

Gratefulness!

Gratitude bestows reverence, allowing us to encounter
everyday epiphanies, those transcendent moments of awe
that change forever how we experience life and the world.
– John Milton

Everything is a miracle,
not just the beautiful and lovely things.
– Anonymous

Look at everything as though you were seeing it
either for the first or last time.
Then your time on earth will be filled with glory.
– Betty Smith

Today I offer a prayer of forgiveness:
forgive the pettiness of my ingratitude…
the absence of profound thankfulness.
– Mary Anne Radmacher

Today’s affirmation:
I Receive ALL of Life with Thanksgiving –
I have gratitude for EVERYTHING
that has ever occurred to bring me to this moment.
I give thanks for the joys and the sufferings,
the moments of peace and the flashes of anger,
the compassion and the indifference,
the roar of my courage and the cold sweat of my fear.
I accept gratefully the entirety of my past and my present life.
– Jonathan Lockwood Huie

With Gratefulness,
Coach Arthur, Certified Professional Life Coach
http://www.niecatlifecoaching.com

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Posted on April 30, 2013 in assistance, Coaching, empowering, help, inspiration, motivation, support, Truth, Uncategorized, wisdom

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