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2015 in review

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True Forgiveness

 

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What is true forgiveness?

True forgiveness is choosing to remember in a selective manner. Choosing to remember the LOVE generated by the experience and letting go of the rest as the illusion it really was. Choosing to forgive does not make you more vulnerable to manipulation or exploitation. As a matter of fact, it makes you stronger.

To be closer to your true nature you need have the mind set of forgiveness.

Forgiving someone does not mean “they got away with it” or “they won!” It means you choose you, you choose freedom. You can walk into the light, and reclaim and enjoy your inner peace.

A Year of Miracles: Daily Devotions and Reflections –   Day 85;                       by: Marianne Williamson

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On Remembering who I Am

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Today is Labor Day as well as the 250 day of 2015. I choose to use this day as a day of reflection. A day to be Grateful for what GOD Has Blessed me with and to look forward in Faith, anticipation and good feelings for what GOD has in store for me.

On this day I remind myself that I Am GOD’s Beloved child who HE is well pleased with! Being GOD’s child brings me GOD’s Favor and Grace in my life, world and affairs.

GOD Is my Father/Mother GOD and therefore GOD is ALWAYS wanting the BEST for me. It is up to me to bring my good into expression; I do that by allowing GOD’s good in. In other words, by doing GOD’s Will and not my own!

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“Bless Up before You Show Up!”  Coach Arthur

Bitter or BETTER, You Choose!

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There are many choices we must make on a daily basis. We can choose to be bitter or we can choose to be BETTER.

Today I submit to you that we should ALL choose BETTER. When we choose bitter, we bring forth more bitterness into our lives, world and affairs.

As I ponder upon what I have gone through I choose to forgive myself and I choose to forgive others, I release past hurts and I choose to be good to me. I release myself from past experiences that I perceived as hurtful.

Choosing to stay bitter, choosing to stay hurt may allow me to feel the support of others, the pitty of others for awhile, however, this trend will not put me in the pass to my Highest Good! I will not be able to begin again in this stage.

In order for me to have miracles in my life, in order for GOD to Truly direct my steps, I have to choose BETTER, I have to choose me and I can’t choose me if I choose bitter.

I have a choice, I can choose to have a grievance or I can choose to be and to have a miracle, bottom line, I can’t choose both.

I choose BETTER!

If you want to learn how to make WISE choices in your world and you need assistance and encouragement, I am the Life Coach for you! Email me for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session: niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com

A Year of Miracles: Daily Devotions and Reflections – Day 222  MarianneWilliamson

Making Wise Choices,

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I Believe in Miracles

FAITH Is a Powerful Tool!

FAITH is the type of tool that changes your life because it changes you!

FAITH allows you to be in a different zone within yourself. FAITH allows you to have total confidence in a power within you but that is not you. This Power can achieve things for you that you cannot achieve yourself. 

As you exercise FAITH, you no longer have a need to enjoy a victim consciousness. 

FAITH allows you to elevate into a state of possibility, which allows you to attract more positive outcomes. Wherever you decide to place your FAITH will determine what happens next in your Life, World & Affairs. 

You have a choice of using your FAITH faculty to have faith in the power of the world or FAITH in the Power of miracles.

You can choose to have faith in the power of fear, or FAITH in the Power of LOVE.

You can choose to have faith in the power of  the naked eye or FAITH in the GOD that lives within You!

 

I’m Choosing to believe in Miracles,

Coach Arthur, Certified Professional Life Coach

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A Year of Miracles

Daily Devotions & Reflections

Marianne Williamson

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For Reflection On Choosing Faith

I Create My Reality

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I am a now a more selective sifter of the reality that I face. I have discovered that whatever reality I am facing; whatever reality I am talking about, thinking about, remembering, regurgitating, whatever reality I am making statistics of, whatever reality I am holding for very long in my vibration becomes my own reality. I am now particular about the realities that I replicate.

I can create My reality!

I can create my reality!

I can create my reality!

I can choose the reality I am creating!

I am a creator!

I can create what ever I want!

I can I and I will create anything I give my attention to!

 

Breath!

If you want to become a conscious creator, I can show you how!

Email me, niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com

 

Creating my life, one thought at a time,

Coach Arthur

Certified Professional Life Coach

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Recipe to foster Your Children’s Self Esteem

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Is True that children do not come with an instructional manual, however, with that being said, we are more prepared than our parents ever were to raise children with a healthy self esteem and self worth.

To achieve this objective there are certain strategies that MUST be put into place in our daily parenting journey. Below are 11 strategies that will guarantee our children do not need to have therapy during their later years! 🙂

  1. Our Children came from us, however, they are here to serve their own given GOD Purpose. We MUST allow them their space in order to become who GOD created them to be. Showing them unconditional LOVE, and accepting them, teaches them that it is safe to be who GOD created them to be!
  2. Having Honest conversations with our children go a long way. Speak to your children about EVERYTHING based on their age. Teach them about your bills, your budget, your childhood, your teen years.
  3. Use your experiences so that they understand that you are not from Mars. You have to speak to them, not in judgement, not preaching, not lecturing, but have honest communications about feelings and aspirations.
  4. Teach them that an ATM machine is not a magical box and that groceries, gas, clothing, extracurricular activities cost! Show them the value of a dollar. Teach them to make a budget. 
  5. Choose to take the time to LISTEN! No matter what you hear, try your BEST not to use judging words! Listen and then, go to the bathroom or your room and scream, but DO NOT allow your children to feel you are condemning them for sharing their experiences with you!
  6. Consequences are needed in your child’s life! Consequences is a better word than punishment as punishment has a negative connotation. At this time is when I tell you no spanking, however, I am not totally convinced that no spanking is the way to go, so I shall leave it as food for thoughts! The bottom line is that boundaries have to be set and your child MUST know when you are serious and when negotiations can take place. 
  7. Become your child’s greatest “ADVOCATE!” Encourage your child to do what they are passionate about and support them! Become that “soccer MOM,” Drama Dad.”
  8. Act as you say! Look at your behavior, are you acting in a way that would be pleasing to you if you saw your child acting in that manner? The days of “do as I do and not as I say” are gone! We have to be responsible to be life models for our children. 
  9. Do not bully your children! Do not call them names! Do not make fun of them! ALWAYS validate their feelings. 
  10. Having fun is a positive way to deal with Life! Humor is healthy! Remember, humor at the expense of your child is not acceptable!
  11. Make it a priority to learn what makes your child tick! Learn each developmental stage your child is going through and the BEST strategies to assist in this development. If you need assistance with these 11 steps, do not hesitate to email me, niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com for a FREE 20 minute Parent Life Coaching session.

The Center for Parenting Education, The Parenting Tip – “High self-esteem is not noisy conceit. It is a quiet sense of self-respect, a feeling of self-worth.”

Wise Parenting,

Coach Arthur

Certified Professional Life Coach

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Happy New Year in July!

It is ALWAYS  a good day to begin again!

 

Take a Life Inventory, think about what your New Year Resolutions were for 2014!1688378_701678123210038_770706810_n

 

How are you doing?

 

Are you on target with your New Year Resolutions?

 

Are you satisfied with your progress?

 

What can you do different to make a positive impact in your life, world and affairs for the rest of the year?

 

Do you want to become more focused on your goals?

 

Do you need assistance keeping YourSelf motivated?

 

Do you think you would be a good candidate for Life Coaching?

 

If you want to explore the benefits of Life Coaching, send me an email, niecatlifecoach@yahoo.com for a FREE 20 minute Life Coaching session!

 


Happy New Year!

Happy New You!

Coach Arthur

Certified Professional Life Coach

 

 

Learn from Failure

Failure

Failure is not an option!

A perceived failure can only be described as such if the lesson is not learned. 

When we choose to learn humility, forgiveness, depth of reflection and better decision making skills, then, we have not failed.
Once a lesson is learned, it cannot possibly be a failure.

Everything happens for a reason and everything happens for our Highest Good! GOD is in the Business of Our Highest good. Therefore, if it happens and we learn the lesson, then, we can name the situation good and very good. 

The people that we admire and those we call GREAT have experienced situations that can be described as failures. What is the difference between them and a regular person?
They have made a conscious decision to dig deep within themselves and find the strength to get back up. 

If a situation is in front of Us, is because we have everything within us to be successful, therefore it cannot be a failure.

Life is a “Thinking Thing” and failure is not a thought that should be an option!

A Year of Miracles, Daily Devotions and Reflections by Marianne Williamson

Day 186 – Today I choose to learn from my failures

Here is to Success,

Coach Arthur

Certified Professional Life Coach

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Exercise Your Imagination

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In the book “Ask & It Is Given” Esther & Jerry Hicks explains how essential it is to use your imagination.

Imagination according to the dictionary means: the faculty or action of forming new ideas, or images or concepts of external objects not present to the senses.
if you think about it, that is the same definition of Faith. Faith is being sure of the things we hope for and knowing that something is real even if we do not see it (www.biblegateway.com).The way I see it, using our imagination is using our Faith.

According to the book instead of living in the present and worry about what you don’t want, they offer an alternative! Think about what you want! Think about how you want the situation to go. Once you think about it, notice the feeling you have while you are thinking about it. At you smiling? Are you feeling good about the thoughts that are crossing your mind? According to the book, if you think of a specific thought for 17 seconds, other thoughts of like mind will come to play. That 17 minutes will become longer and longer until you are exercising your Faith/Imagination faculty without even noticing it.

Try it! I find myself much happier as I use my Faith/Imagination Faculty to think and feel about how I want to see my life. The BEST part? I am manifesting some GREAT things in my life!

If you want to learn how to exercise your Faith/Imagination Faculty inbox me for a 20 minute FREE Life Coaching Session!

I Am Imagination,

Coach Arthur
Certified Professional Life Coach
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